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Seven Tips to Grow Your Prayer Life in 2020

Seven Tips to Grow Your Prayer Life in 2020

By Karen Berry

Here at PrayerBowls, we love new beginnings. It symbolizes a fresh start; a slate wiped clean. Although the winter season may seem bleak, cold and even stagnant, we are gifted a holiday right in the middle that energizes and encourages us to become our best selves: New Years Day. Every year on this day, we try to find and incorporate new ways to connect with our Heavenly Father; seeking him out with the hope that he will fill us with purpose. So for this month’s blog post, Karen wanted to share a few tips that may help you connect and grow with God during the new year.  

Growing Our Prayer Life: 

1. Start your morning off right. To begin my day focusing on God and worship, I have changed my alarm to my favorite worship song – something you can do on any smartphone. With this easy little trick, my first thoughts are of praising God and I can easily begin my day with a few minutes of prayer before even stepping out of bed.

2. Chore Prayer. A sister in Christ shared this idea with me and it has changed how I look at doing chores. If you are like me, you may find yourself getting a little grumpy over the pile of laundry looming in the corner or feeling a little frustrated as you lug the trash to the curb at the end of the night. Now as I am folding laundry, I might say a prayer for the family member whose clothes they are. And when I take the trash to the curb, I now pause and look up to the starry sky in awe and amazement that our Almighty God, creator of all things, loves me beyond measure. 

3. Praying Scripture. God tells us that all scripture is God breathed. I love plugging in my loved ones’ names and claiming God’s promises made in scripture over my family and friends. God’s word is powerful. Use it! 

4. Five-Finger Prayer. Using your fingers as references, this prayer is a great way to remember the many different groups of people we want to pray for and the order in which we should pray. 

  • Thumb – Pray for those closest to your heart, such as family and friends. 
  • Pointer finger – Pray for those who teach, instruct, and heal you.
  • Tall Finger – Pray for those in leadership and government roles that need God’s counsel.
  • Ring finger – Pray for those who are weak, sick, hungry or hurting.
  • Pinkie – Pray for yourself, coming humbly before the Lord with a greater understanding of your own needs. 
  • 5. 180 Prayer. We all have times when we have to do something we really don’t want to do, whether it be a work event for your spouse or something you regret signing up for. During these times, I use a “180 prayer” to ask God for a change in attitude; to help me do a 180! It is amazing what God can do when you put things in His hands.

    6. Let God’s Word pour over you. Download the Bible App and you can listen to the Bible on audio anytime, whether you’re in the car, walking the dog, or doing chores around the house. It is amazing to just listen and let God’s love blanket you and strengthen your faith in His promises.  

    7. One Word. This and last year, the church we attend encouraged us to pray about one word that God wants us to focus on that year. Once we have our word, we look for scripture and Bible stories to encourage us, as well as a book or Bible Study that focuses on that word. Staying mindful of God's word throughout the year can make a big impact and keep us focused on what is important. This year, the word that God has put on my heart is GROW, and I will be focusing on scripture from 2 Peter 1:3-10.  

    Growing in Faith: 2 Peter 1:3-10

    3 By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence. 4 And because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires.

    5 In view of all this, make every effort to respond to God’s promises. Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge, 6 and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with patient endurance, and patient endurance with godliness, 7 and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love for everyone. 8 The more you grow like this, the more productive and useful you will be in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 But those who fail to develop in this way are shortsighted or blind, forgetting that they have been cleansed from their old sins. 10 So, dear brothers and sisters, work hard to prove that you really are among those God has called and chosen. Do these things, and you will never fall away.


    God has done amazing things through PrayerBowls, and at the moment I feel a little overwhelmed and under qualified for things being asked of me. Even writing this blog is an example of something way out of my comfort zone. But God doesn’t want us to be stagnant; he wants us to GROW. This takes faith, courage, and lots of prayer. I have learned that being in this position is a great place to be. It makes me totally dependent on God instead of just myself.   

    We’d love if you would share with us some of the ways that you plan to grow in your relationship with God in 2020! Comment below what your word or share a way that prayer has deepened your connection and dependence on our Heavenly Father. God bless you.  

    Jan 23, 2020

    Good Morning, this is just a great blog. I LOVE the way you have made prayer so easy and simple. I have many words this year but my most important is Peace. I need a peace that passes all understanding and I know GOD is the only one who can give that to me.

    Jan 21, 2020

    Such practical suggestions! And the timing of your beautiful writing is just perfect …today is laundry day. I can’t wait to pray over family members, as opposed to huffing over their stains and worn out knees in pants. Thank you for the inspiration. My word will be PRESENT… and this simple laundry tactic will help me be present with the Lord more often. Off to change my ring tone…

    Jan 21, 2020


    What a nice read with great ideas as we begin a new year and fresh decade!

    Jan 20, 2020

    My word for this year is JOY. I have struggled with depression and felt I couldn’t be loved bc of that. During a time of prayer the word JOY was placed on my heart & I knew that 2020 was truly going to be a year of JOY for me. Praise God!

    Jan 20, 2020

    Such a wonderful message on prayer. 🙏. Thank you, Karen, for sharing your spirit-led tips for bringing us closer to God. 😍

    Jan 20, 2020

    I have decided to use your chore prayer but with a change. I’m praying for the people i encounter as I’m driving. I’m praying for the person who is driving so slow when I’m in a hurry, for the person who is making a left turn at the light, the driver who is ahead of me at the stoplight. We have no idea what people are dealing with each day. Maybe I can send some Grace their way..

    Jan 20, 2020

    I loved waking up this morning to this post. I can’t wait to implement the strategies you listed into my daily prayers!

    Ali V
    Jan 20, 2020

    I can’t wait for tomorrow morning!!!!
    I’m always amazed by the unbelievable privilege of just being with Jesus!
    Thank you, Karen!

    Jan 20, 2020

    Faye, I have the one called “Bible” app on my phone. The picture says HOLY BIBLE. It offers many great features. I know there are many other choices, so you many want to google search “best audio Bible apps” and read what the different ones have to offer.

    Karen Berry
    Jan 20, 2020

    I just changed the ringtone on my alarm to Michael Smith’s Draw Me Close to You and I added the Bible app to my phone.
    What wonderful ideas! Thank you!!! Thank you for being faithful to God’s call in your life and for blessing us.

    Debra Tomaselli
    Jan 20, 2020

    TRUST is my word. I will trust more that the Lord has me in the place that he wants me, and I will trust that his holy spirit will be by my side to keep me focused on God’s word.

    Jan 20, 2020

    For this year I plan to set more time for longer private talks/prayers with GOD. I am going to concentrate on letting go of the hurt others have caused me and turn it into love for those closest to me.

    Jan 20, 2020

    God has given you a gift in writing. Your words blessed me and gave me direction this morning. Thank you! God never sends us where His grace doesn’t cover us. I pray for Change in my life this year, that’s my word! God bless you today is a special way!

    Jan 20, 2020

    Very inspiring message, especially for a Monday morning.
    The 7 tips are great. And I will to focusing also on 2nd Peter3-10.

    Jan 20, 2020

    It’s funny that you said the word “grow”.
    Before I even read your word I said to myself,” grow in my faith thru the grace of God.” I went back & forth with GROW or GRACE. I too chose GROW. My journey for 2020 is to GROW in my faith thru the Grace of God thru His teaching .
    Blessings to all of you in 2020 on your growing faith journey🙏

    Cheryl Clifford
    Jan 20, 2020

    thank you for these great prayer “ideas”.
    my word is PEACE and Jesus used it a lot!
    it is all over the bible and helps me stay calm in an ever hectic world.

    Nancy Taylor
    Jan 20, 2020

    I need a Bible app that I can listen to as I walk. Can you recommend a good one?
    Thank you!

    Faye Brown

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